Turn Your Fights Into Relationship Growth
Individual feedback and coaching rooted in proven relationship therapy. Record a conversation, get personalized feedback, and learn about needs, language and how to reconnect deeper.
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Every couple fights. Most never learn how to repair.
How many hours did you spend learning to drive? To cook? To do your job? Now ask yourself: how many hours have you spent learning how to communicate with the person you love most?
As a child you learn how to protect yourself when your needs are not met. You are dependent on your caregivers. The strategies we develop as children were the best solution we had at the time. As adults, most of them no longer fit. Reconnect Us helps you spot the triggers and old patterns still running the show, so you can choose differently.
Most relationship conflicts aren't really resolved — they come back, slightly different, again and again. What matters is how you handle them when they return.
Couples therapy is expensive and hard to access — many couples never get support until things have already broken down.
A handful of patterns quietly erode connection — criticism, contempt, defensiveness, withdrawal. Most couples can't spot them in the heat of the moment.
Your relationship coach, available the moment you need it most
Reconnect Us listens to your conversation and gives you personalized coaching. You learn what each person's needs were, what language was used, and are presented with options on how to express yourself from a position of love.
Deep conversation analysis
Upload or record a conversation. Reconnect Us identifies communication patterns, emotional dynamics, and unmet needs.
Spot bad habits
See the patterns you can't see in the heat of the moment. Are you criticizing instead of expressing a need? Defending instead of listening? Withdrawing instead of staying present? Reconnect Us names it clearly — without judgment.
Suggestions for repair
Get specific, actionable repair suggestions. Personalized coaching based on what actually happened in your conversation and what each person needed.
Track your growth as a couple
See how your communication patterns evolve over multiple conversations. Identify recurring triggers, celebrate breakthroughs, and build relationship skills that last.
3 steps to turn any conversation into growth
Record
Have a conversation with your partner. Record directly in the app, or use Voice Memos or any recorder and upload the audio file. Supported formats: MP3, WAV, M4A, OGG, WebM, AAC, FLAC — up to 100 MB.
Learn how to get your partner on board →Reflect
Reconnect Us analyzes your conversation using insights from multiple proven therapy approaches. Within minutes, you'll see a clear summary of what happened, what each person actually needed, and where things escalated — without taking sides.
Reconnect
Get personalized coaching on exactly what to say and do next to repair. Read the feedback together as a couple. No blame, no judgment — just clarity and a path forward.
Your feedback report, explained
Every discussion you upload produces a detailed, personalized coaching report. Here's what's inside:
What This Was Really About expand_more
A short, neutral headline of what was underneath the surface — what each of you was really trying to say. Both partners see the same story. No sides taken.
What You Each Needed expand_more
The core need each person was expressing, even if it came out sideways. Often the discussion isn't about the dishes — it's about feeling valued, heard, or safe.
What Went Well expand_more
Before going deeper, the moments of connection: vulnerability, honesty, an attempt to slow things down, a moment of listening or acknowledgment. Strength named first, so growth has somewhere to stand.
The Pattern Between You expand_more
Not about who was right — about the dynamic you create together. Who pursued, who withdrew? Reconnect Us names the cycle in plain language — "The more you do X, the more I do Y" — so you can step out of it together.
What Made Things Harder expand_more
One or two moments per person that escalated things — with the exact quote, a timestamp, and an alternative way it could have been said. Focus on behavior, not character. Awareness, not blame.
What May Have Been Triggered expand_more
A gentle look at moments where old pain may have shown up — where one of you reacted from somewhere deeper than the current discussion. Short, compassionate, never diagnostic.
Path to Repair expand_more
For each person, the single most important topic — the one that, if heard, would shift the most. Drafted as four lines you can actually say: what happened, the story I told myself, how I felt, and one specific request that would help.
Moving Forward expand_more
One to three concrete, warm suggestions for what to try next — grounded in this specific discussion. Options, never prescriptions. You find your own way.
How to get your partner on board
Recording a conversation is a vulnerable act. Here's how to approach it with care.
- 1.
Start with love.
Tell your partner that this relationship matters to you and you want to connect deeper.
- 2.
Propose an experiment.
"Would you be willing to try something? We record one discussion and see what we can learn from it — together."
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Record naturally.
When a disagreement comes up, check in: "Is it still okay to record this?" Then press record — in the app or any recording app you already have.
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Upload and get feedback.
Upload the audio to Reconnect Us. Your personalized coaching report is ready in minutes.
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Read it together.
This is the most powerful part. Sit down together, read the feedback as a team. Remember: it's not about who's right. It's about understanding what you both needed.
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Decide together.
Ask: "Should we keep going with this?" Let it be a shared choice.
What This Is NOT About:
- Not about who is right and who is wrong
- Not about being better or worse
- Not about who has which trauma
- Not about who needs to improve
- Not about who got more emotional
What This IS About:
- Reconnecting and loving each other
- Supporting and helping each other
- Accepting each other — triggers, patterns, and all
- A deep desire to grow individually and together
- Running small experiments and seeing what works for both of you
Simple pricing. Try it free first.
Every plan starts with 5 free recordings — full coaching reports, no credit card required. Pick a plan when you're ready for more.
5 recordings free for everyone. Full reports, all methodologies, partner sharing — included with every plan below. No credit card to start.
Mini
For couples easing in.
- check 5 free recordings to start — included
- check 1 hour of analysis per month after trial
- check Unlimited conversation history
- check Progress tracking over time
- check Full coaching reports — nothing held back
- check All methodologies included
- check Partner sharing
- check Upload or record in-app
Plus
For couples committed to growth.
- check 5 free recordings to start — included
- check 5 hours of analysis per month after trial
- check Unlimited conversation history
- check Progress tracking over time
- check Full coaching reports — nothing held back
- check All methodologies included
- check Partner sharing
- check Upload or record in-app
Max
Unlimited growth.
- check 5 free recordings to start — included
- check Unlimited everything after trial
- check Unlimited conversation history
- check Progress tracking over time
- check Full coaching reports — nothing held back
- check All methodologies included
- check Partner sharing
- check Upload or record in-app
How does this compare?
| Reconnect Us | Couples Therapy | |
|---|---|---|
| Cost per hour | less than a coffee | $50-200 |
| Available | Anytime, instantly | Weeks to schedule |
| Between sessions | Always there | You're on your own |
*Reconnect Us is not a replacement for therapy. It's the support you need between sessions — or the first step when therapy isn't accessible yet.
Built with care. Guided by values.
Growth First
Reconnect Us is designed for couples who want to grow together — a shared step toward deeper understanding.
Never Takes Sides
Your coaching report treats both partners with equal respect. It identifies patterns and needs — it never assigns blame. The relationship is the client, not either individual.
Complementary to Therapy
Reconnect Us is a relationship guidance tool that works alongside professional support. If you don't go to therapy, Reconnect Us is an easy way to start working on yourself and your relationship.
Our mission
A world where every couple has the skills to turn conflict into connection.
We believe love starts at home — and that how you handle disagreement matters more than whether you disagree. Conflict is one of the few places where childhood wounds actually surface. That makes it one of the best places to grow.
Reconnect Us exists to make relationship skills accessible to everyone — through coaching during and after difficult conversations.
Every couple deserves real tools to repair and reconnect. Every person deserves support along the way.
"Connect deeper. Grow together."
Frequently asked questions
How does Reconnect Us work? expand_more
Record a conversation with your partner, upload the audio, and receive a detailed report within minutes. The report analyzes patterns, identifies needs, spots relationship dynamics, and gives specific suggestions for repair. The report also uncovers personal patterns that may have been present in your childhood and triggers that may cause it.
Is my audio data safe? expand_more
Yes. Recordings are processed securely and never shared with third parties. You or your partner can delete your recordings and data at any time. We made the deletion process seamless from day one.
Do both partners need an account? expand_more
No, you can use it on your own. But it works best when both partners see the same feedback. You can invite your partner with a link.
Disagreeing isn't the problem. The problem is how you act when disagreeing.
The way you handle conflict isn't really about the dishes, the schedule, or who said what. It's about patterns you learned long before you met your partner. Being right. Controlling. Withdrawing. Retaliating. None of these are character flaws — they're survival strategies from childhood.
Reconnect Us helps you see the pattern, name it, and choose differently.
No credit card required. 5 free recordings for every new user — full coaching reports included.